In this series we’ll dive into the basic details of how to do in and outs. To understand them we need to first understand how we’re actually going to do the job.
The most basic form of in and outs is a “hug”. A hug is where you hug someone and try to establish a “friendship”. In this case the hugging is in a bid to establish a bond.
A hug can be one of three different ways. The most common is the hug of affection. This is when you hold someone who you know very well. When this happens you want to make sure that you give them a hug, regardless of how old or busy they are.
In the case of the hug of affection, you give in to the person you’re holding and then you end on a very public, “I give you a hug.” The second way is when you make a physical move. In this case, you touch someone and don’t stop. You don’t want to stop the hug, but you don’t want to let it go either. The last way of in and outs is a handshake.
The fact is, you can literally hold hands with a stranger who happens to be your best friend. Just don’t let go of the hand that is holding yours. For the handshake, you hold a hand, then you shake hands and you don’t let go. Even if you feel like you want to let go, you don’t.
My advice to all of you is to let go. Let go of the hug. Let go of the handshake. Let go of the in and outs. Don’t let go of the best friend. Let go.
I know that a lot of you are probably thinking “well if she lets go, how can he let go”. The answer is that you can’t. You can only let go of the other person by holding your eyes open and letting them go. This may be a hard concept for some of you to grasp (like me), but its important.
I know that it may seem a little silly to all of you, but I would go on to say that you dont let go is extremely important. For many people its their “one and only” thing in this world that they know to do. They can’t let go of it. In fact, I would go so far as to say that they should let go of it.
This is a good point that many of you may not care about. For you, the main thing you do is you let go of your partner. You give someone a lift to an event, or you let someone go to an event, or you let someone go to an event. But for me this is just a part of the human race. Like most of us, I have this thing called my own body. It gives me this freedom of my body.
This is a bit of a misnomer. My body is my body. I am my body. I have my personal freedom as I create my own body. And, in reality, the amount of freedom I gain from my body is minimal. To a great extent, I am just a slave of my body. I give myself the freedom to do or not do something at a given moment. I can do something to my body and not feel a thing.
